Why ABDL/ DDLG/ CGl is not pedophilia.
(my point of view, feel free to add your thoughts!)
Look at my tumblr. What do you see? A 23 year old person, wearing diapers, using a paci, bottles and enjoying things, that usually only kids would enjoy (without being judged**). You say, this is ‘gateway porn’ for pedophiles? Then let me explain:
- Someone, who is a pedophile, is sexually attracted to children. I am not anywhere close to being a kid. A pedophile will most likely be very disturbed, if he saw me. An adult. With diapers and a paci. He does’t care about my diapers and my paci. I’m too old, he is simply not interested in me, no matter how I dress.
- Someone, who is not a pedophile, is often (but not always) sexually attracted to adults. If an adult will look at me, he will often be disturbed as well. Not, because I look like a kid and he feels like he’s looking at childporn, but simply because I use pacis and diapers. It’s just a very disturbing thing for people, who are not into it (most of the time).
- Nobody will ever look at me, an adult person with a childrens behaviour and think the following:
Oh, this adult girl is turning me on, when she’s wearing kidds clothes. Maybe a kid will turn me on, too.
Because this is not, how it works.
You either are attracted to children, or you’re not. ABDL/ DDlg/ CGl does not open doors for pedos. You can not ‘create’ a pedo.
You still don’t get it? That’s okay, let’s do an easy comparison:
If adults dressed as kids create pedos,
adults dressed as cats create beastiality.
No. That last part makes no sense, does it? Right. Because it doesn’t. It makes no sense. What you’re saying, makes no sense. Dressing up as cats for carnival or any other occasion does not create anything, except fun.
You either are something (pedo/ abdl/ into beastiality) anyway, or you’re not.
**Note: Judged for using stuffies, toys, pacis, bottles. But guess what? I have never encountered a girl who doesn’t sleep with stuffies. I never found a person not to have a big smile on their face when someone is wearing something adorably cute and I never found anyone who does not enjoy playgrounds, once they know, nobody will say “But you’re an adult!’. Because you know what? Kids do those things for a reason: They’re fun. Why on earth should they not be fun for adults. Adults are nothing but kids with the license to drive and drink. Ask any adult. They will agree. Even if they’re not into any of that stuff. (and if you’re adult and do not agree: I am really, extremely, incredibly sorry that you, indeed, grew an adult heart)
Is that so difficult to understand?